Today, January 18th, is Evelyn June
Laufer Taylor’s 92nd birthday—Congratulations! Evelyn is the wife of
Bryant Calkins Taylor who was the son of Floyd Taylor, twin of Lloyd. Bryant
also had a January Birthday—on the 26th, he too would have been 92
years old.
Bryant and Evie Taylor
Evelyn answered my call last month when I asked
about Christmas stories, memories or traditions. As she wrote: “Christmas is a favorite theme for me.
In fact, I made up a booklet several years ago of our eventful Christmases past
for the kids.”
So before I put away ALL of my Christmas decorations
until next December (I still have up my Nativity set), here is one last look at
Christmases past with some of Evelyn’s memories:
CHRISTMAS
TRADITIONS
Bryant and I, when we had our children, redesigned
our Christmas traditions, taking from both of our childhood ones and tailoring
them to our present circumstances.
Since I had always had to go to my paternal
grandparents’ on Christmas Eve, we decided to always be at home for the kids to
really anticipate Santa’s arrival. Also,
our toy store was open until 6 PM on Christmas Eve, making a long and tiring
day with many personal things to finish up after the kids went to bed.
Our traditional Christmas Eve supper was oyster stew
for Bryant and me, tomato soup for the kids, cranberry molded Jello (red)
salad, lime and pineapple molded Jello (green) salad, quick breads, ice cream
with strawberries and Christmas cookies.
On Christmas morning we opened our stocking presents
in our robes, got dressed, made our beds, and had breakfast of juice and coffee
cake shaped like a wreath. Santa’s unwrapped gifts had already been discovered
by the kids before the stockings and exclaimed over. Finally, we started on the
regular gifts. The youngest one started
by picking out one and giving it out.
After it was opened and often passed around to see, that person picked
the next one.
As this could take quite a while, we had snacks and
time-out to play and savor what we had.
At 4 o’clock both sets of grandparents arrived for dinner and to see the
gifts and enjoy the action and excitement of the children.
Each set of grandparents had a Christmas for the
family with their own traditions. For
the Laufer’s, we went there the Sunday before Christmas, and The Taylors always
celebrated New Year’s weekend when their other son and family came from Ohio.
In this way no family had to give up its family
traditions. It was great to have three
Christmases and three special dinners!
Christmas 1953-1960
THE HOBBY HORSE
SHOP
(Toys discounted
up to 50% off)
It took planning to
run a toy store in the basement of your home. It affected the whole
family. Since December hours were 1:00
PM to 9:00 PM, six days a week with a 6:00 PM closing Christmas Eve, we laid
out a schedule to get things done on time.
We shopped out of
catalogs for gifts other than toys in October.
On October 12, Columbus Day and a school holiday, the kids and often
neighbor kids frosted the already baked cut out cookies to be frozen and not
eaten until Dec. 24th.A couple of times the kids helped make other
kinds, but finally it was easier to do those by myself. I also made and froze Christmas wreath coffee
cakes for Christmas breakfast and gifts for friends.
After Thanksgiving,
all Christmas cards were written and stamped and gifts wrapped before
December. Bryant also sent out desk
calendars to all his insurance clients and we all helped get those addressed
and stamped.
The month of
December was difficult for the kids as we were too busy to have family time. We
wanted to give the store a holiday atmosphere, so Christmas records were played
continually (only had about 12 in our repertoire). However, our record player was upstairs --
part of the TV console, and we piped the music to the downstairs. It took lots
of concentration for the kids to watch TV with carols always present and the
volume not low enough to be called "background music."
On one of these
Christmas Eves during the store years, Bryant and I were still downstairs
finishing up some things for the kids.
All of a sudden we heard a loud thud above us. We rushed upstairs to find our 14-year-old
Collie, Fleet, had had a stroke.
Frantically, we called the veterinarian who said to protect her from
hurting herself and see how she is in the morning. She could not stand; her eyes were
crossed. We stayed up most of the night,
caring for her as we would a child; she was our first "child" as we
had her before we had any children. On
Christmas day she was still alive, but the vet would not come to put her to
sleep until the next day.
It was so painful
for all of us to watch her suffer -- panting, not eating, unable to stand all
Christmas day and night. It was so difficult to be "Merry." All of us
felt this sadness, but the children did not realize what was ahead of us. The next day the vet gave her the injection
as Bryant held her head and I held her paw.
The last movement I saw was the final wag of her tail.
Christmas 1954
In 1954 my mother,
Hazel Laufer, died in October, so Dad had come to spend the holidays with
us. It was business as usual because of
the toy store. However, this year it was
difficult for me to think of having "Christmas as usual." Nevertheless, for our three children and Dad,
I attempted to eliminate nothing.
On Christmas Eve,
the turkey was stuffed, ready to go into the oven early the next morning. Our
store closed at six o'clock, and only last minute gift-wrapping had to be
done. Everything seemed to be going as
smoothly as could be. Suddenly, I became nauseated and was sick all night long.
Christmas morning I managed to get through the stocking and gifts, showing
enthusiasm for the sake of the children but feeling so tired and weak.
Bryant put the
turkey in the oven at the proper time.
Then he and Dad set the table, peeled potatoes, following the schedule I
always make for myself, while I feebly guided them from the sidelines. However, when it came to making the
gravy, the fellows drew a blank,
so I sat at the kitchen table, head propped up on my hand and tried to explain
how to do it (gravy-making has never been my forte), so this was no easy task.
If only Mom had been
there to hold my head and take over the Christmas dinner. I missed her then -- and
miss her still!
3 comments:
Evelyn,
You have been a writer I could count on all of these years--thank you--for generously sharing the stories of your family, AND of all of your memories of the Taylor Clan.
Happy Happy Birthday!
Happy Birthday, Evelyn! I am so glad I got to visit you this past summer and get a little taste of your elegant luncheons!
I loved this story - I had no idea that you had a toy store. Where did the toys come from that you sold and how did you get them? Did Bryant make some of them? These stories about your Christmases are so touching.
I had noticed your birthday in Pat's listing on the side of the blog a few days ago and was planning to send you a Happy Birthday email, but Pat's story here is an even better opportunity so I am sending you my birthday wishes via the blog. And I love the picture of the Northern Lights at the top - perfect for a January birthday!
Love, Sue
Dear All,
Well I remember the toy store! We visited during those years and it was such fun to look over the shelves. As I remember it comprised the whole of your basement! Fun to browse and impossible to leave empty handed!
I also remember your first floor bathroom! Holding a toilet and a sink, it was not large but one wall was painted black and a pencil with white lead was available! Each guest was to write a thiught on the wll, and many had! Eve, you have always been FULL of good ideas and not afraid to try them! Love you!
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